Ignoring the Obvious Posted on February 16, 2020 by Crystal Hello World! So, to say the very least the meeting that I had recently attended with the members of the Organization involved in this mishap; was a waste of time and completely useless. Regardless of the fact that my son persists to express his feelings and there have been multiple concerns since things have begun. They remain to ignore the obvious “Red Flags,” and sent a follow-up letter some few days later. Believe you me; when I read what they had to say I couldn’t believe my eyes! (you will find a picture of the letter below. Keeping personal information hidden of course) They really want to encourage an abusive relationship? They don’t see a problem with the fact that he doesn’t know how to dress himself at 8 years old? (this being with pants that have strings or a symbol on the front nonetheless); the ones that are typically the easiest for a child to know which way the correct way is! Not even considering the fact that he knew how to properly dress himself at the age of 4 when “Round One” between the Organization and myself had been taking place… Or as some of the people that may have read my book would know it as – “The November Nightmare.” Truthfully… when I read the letter it really seems to me like more of a so called “Wild Card” (I guess you can say). Almost as if they are testing me to see what’s more important to me; or as one would have it – what bothers me more. The fact that the Child Protection Organization has refused to protect my son; or the fact that they came after me for trying to get them to do so. Can’t say I am too sure as what I am supposed to think; but I do think that maybe treating it as such would be the safest idea. It’s just so frustrating when there have been so many concerns that have come up in the last 8 months or so that this has been going on – that the members of the Organization persist to ignore. This includes safety concerns! Letting my little boy climb a ladder with a handful of nails; with no spotter on the bottom and his father on the roof! Worst part of it all – the Organization claims to have “no evidence;” but meanwhile they have the admittance of what had previously transpired by my son!! YES he told them about what happened and they STILL Haven’t done a thing to protect him!! Wild isn’t it!? But seemingly enough – I am the bad guy for trying to protect my son and try to get the members of the Organization to do their job!? Idk… I do have mediation coming up.. Praying to all the God’s and Goddess’ of the World that it goes well for the sake of my little man! With that being said; think I am going to leave you all for now. Until next Time! (don’t forget the image of the letter is below – feel free to comment your opinion) Please Always Remeber – “Tough Times Don’t Last , Tough People Do”
Present/Future Posted on September 7, 2019September 7, 2019 by Crystal Hello again People of the World! I am sorry for the delay in this post. However things at the Present time are heartbreaking…especially when you feel like you can’t be truly happy because of a promise you were forced to break….Let provide somewhat of an explanation… Once again I have been a target of the Corruption of the Family & Children Services Organization. Only this time; they seem to have taken things much further than I ever could’ve anticipated. Which is also the reason why I am currently working on a Second Editon to my Upcoming Release Next Month of my Book – Family and Children Services: Child Protection or Corruption? I have learned that attempting to put your faith in our system; is not necessarily something one would want to do; Especially when it comes to our Child Welfare System! The ONLY Reason Why I am going through what I am now with the Orgaization is due to my attempting to protect my own offspring from being harmed by a step parent – the end result – I am once again their target…regardless of things that they have been informed by the child directly. However, because he had been unable to provide any specifics to the incident (when it happened etc); the Organization has in turn REFUSED to Protect a Child Due to this Alone!! Although; no where does it say in the Child, Youth and Family Services Act that this is to be the case! So yes, in the end; because of a past with them, I remain to be targeted and a child remains to be in danger and unprotected. But, I would like to leave you all with this. A song that my little man and I say is “Our Song” – Tough People Do by Brett Kissel. This song has gotten us through some of the toughest times. But Every Word of the Chorus is True! “..Tough Times Don’t Last, Tough People Do!..”