Ignoring the Obvious Posted on February 16, 2020 by Crystal Hello World! So, to say the very least the meeting that I had recently attended with the members of the Organization involved in this mishap; was a waste of time and completely useless. Regardless of the fact that my son persists to express his feelings and there have been multiple concerns since things have begun. They remain to ignore the obvious “Red Flags,” and sent a follow-up letter some few days later. Believe you me; when I read what they had to say I couldn’t believe my eyes! (you will find a picture of the letter below. Keeping personal information hidden of course) They really want to encourage an abusive relationship? They don’t see a problem with the fact that he doesn’t know how to dress himself at 8 years old? (this being with pants that have strings or a symbol on the front nonetheless); the ones that are typically the easiest for a child to know which way the correct way is! Not even considering the fact that he knew how to properly dress himself at the age of 4 when “Round One” between the Organization and myself had been taking place… Or as some of the people that may have read my book would know it as – “The November Nightmare.” Truthfully… when I read the letter it really seems to me like more of a so called “Wild Card” (I guess you can say). Almost as if they are testing me to see what’s more important to me; or as one would have it – what bothers me more. The fact that the Child Protection Organization has refused to protect my son; or the fact that they came after me for trying to get them to do so. Can’t say I am too sure as what I am supposed to think; but I do think that maybe treating it as such would be the safest idea. It’s just so frustrating when there have been so many concerns that have come up in the last 8 months or so that this has been going on – that the members of the Organization persist to ignore. This includes safety concerns! Letting my little boy climb a ladder with a handful of nails; with no spotter on the bottom and his father on the roof! Worst part of it all – the Organization claims to have “no evidence;” but meanwhile they have the admittance of what had previously transpired by my son!! YES he told them about what happened and they STILL Haven’t done a thing to protect him!! Wild isn’t it!? But seemingly enough – I am the bad guy for trying to protect my son and try to get the members of the Organization to do their job!? Idk… I do have mediation coming up.. Praying to all the God’s and Goddess’ of the World that it goes well for the sake of my little man! With that being said; think I am going to leave you all for now. Until next Time! (don’t forget the image of the letter is below – feel free to comment your opinion) Please Always Remeber – “Tough Times Don’t Last , Tough People Do”
It’s now Jan 2021, and I just discovered your blog. Some of your statements match parts of my story word for word. The Worker in my case even lied to Ontario Police in order to support sending one of my children directly into danger despite the Police warnings, and the Officers knew she was lying so they gave me a Police Report to help me prove how dangerous she is to my children. I just received the Disclosure Files and there’s so much in there that proves I was not being paranoid the whole time (as they accused me of being). I’m preparing to send my complaint package with evidence to the Review Board, but I’m not sure how helpful they might be… I haven’t read the rest of your entries yet…this is the first one. I’ll continue reading…I hope there is going to be a good ending… Loading... Reply
Hello Grace! I am so sorry to hear about what you are encountering right now; and pray that by sharing my experience that it helps you as well – even if it is just by realizing that you really are not alone in this and there are many others just like you that have been wronged by the Family and Childen Services. If you do feel that you need more insights as to which way to turn or which acts to inquire – Please also review the book that I have published. As within the contents of that Publication; specifically Chapter Six – You will find a copy of the Child, Youth and Family Services Act; as well as many other laws that could possibly coincide with a Child Protection Matter. I hope that this helps and wish you all the best of luck. If you wish to share your story for the next publication Speaking Out and Speaking Up Please Do Not Hesitate to reach out to myself personally. With all the Love and Best of Luck with you and your family <3 Loading... Reply